My Blog, My Opinion
March 20th, 2008 Categories: Random Thoughts
I was told when I started blogging that generating a bit of controversy is actually a good thing. Getting people to read your posts and keep coming back is the point. Being plain vanilla is boring and dull.
“I’ve really done it now…”
I said to my husband when he got home tonight. “I received a very pissed-off comment regarding one of my posts.” Not a comment like the others I’ve received that lay out the person’s perspective in a thoughtful manner. This was more of an attack on me, my company and this blog.
“Way to Go!” says my blogging coach.
“Who cares?” says my very thick-skinned, ex-Marine, lawyer husband, “don’t get your knickers in a twist.” He’s impervious to controversy - me, not so much.
The American Way
Here’s the thing. I have as much a right to post my opinion on my own blog as anyone else does on their blog or in their newspaper article. That’s the American way - as long as you’re not mentioning names or defaming or slandering anyone. I may not always like or agree with what’s out there, but I’ll never deny that whoever wrote it can do so in this country. Truth is important, though, fabrication dangerous. I recall a recent controversy generated over at Bloodhound Blog that had lots of folks threatening to unsubscribe. I read the initial post that caused all of the uproar and thought to myself, “Hmm, that guy has a bit of an ego.” But that was it. I didn’t think, “everyone should attack him for what he said.” While I also support their right to say their piece, what I don’t think is useful are the personal attacks. Personal attacks have no place in the discussion.
So I’m not releasing the comment from moderation. You can just fill in the blanks yourself.
What Now?
The “Drive By Shootings” category in this blog has been the most popular so far. For the few pointed comments and the one really negative one I got today, I’ve received dozens of comments via email that say, “hurrah!” “You’re funny!” or “Interesting points.” But maybe this section is confusing people, and maybe I’ll rethink it.
Lend Your Opinion
Aside from the fact that it’s unlikely that most of the photographs are copyrighted, is this a section that should stay? I’m not mentioning any broker names, property addresses, or even areas of town where these listings reside. To the extent that any copyright laws are violated, then it isn’t up for debate. The photos can’t be reproduced without permission. Other than that, so far the posts are coming from a public, internet domain.
Seems to me, that what the person objected to was my opinion. If I had posted the listing in a promotional way saying, “hey guys, check out this fabulous listing!!” then I doubt that anyone would have objected to my use of the photo. I really think my opinion is what caused the rub. My opinion was that professional photography always presents a house in the best light.
The unfortunate thing in all of this, is that the other broker (who is remaining politely quiet) is someone I greatly respect. He and I had a conversation about it and his said, “Don’t sweat it, I thought it was funny.” Still my opinion stands…
Ok…you’re a genius! GREAT POST! Your points are succinct, clear and I agree. Your last paragraph is right on the money. Not to mention your formatting is spectacular! I’m a fan! I like the jarhead’s opinion as well. Semper Fidelis!
I agree with Rob. You certainly have the right to post anything that your heart desires, it is your blog and yes we still live in a free country. There are several Realtors (tons actually) that put up the craziest pictures or none at all. Actually the Chattanooga MLS now requires at least one picture when putting up a listing. Keep up the great work.
David
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My hope is that the discussions here make consumers aware of the fact that not all Realtors are the same.
Don’t work with your best friend’s cousin just because they have a real estate license. Take the time to find an agent who knows their stuff, will work solely for your best interest, and is simpatico with what you’re looking for…
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Hi Shannon,
You make a great point. I’ve often thought that the barriers to entry in our profession are too low. It’s very easy to get a real estate license, harder to do a top-notch job of it for your clients.
Thanks for posting comments!
GF
Hi Gretchen,
I came by to visit your blog after discovering the comment you left me, (and thank you, by the way). I really love your writing style, it’s fun and intelligent…very easy reading.
Best wishes for continued blogging success!
Dawn
Hi Dawn,
I like your blog as well. I’ve visited a couple of times, and I’m glad to see they corrected the “categories”! Good luck to you as well.