The Secret To Not Becoming a Murder Victim
June 11th, 2008 Categories: Random Thoughts
Do you ever look over your shoulder as you’re walking down the street at night? Do you feel strange when looking at houses with someone you’ve just met? You may be as interested as I was to learn how to avoid danger.
Life Saving Survival Skills
The Gift of Fear, by Gavin De Becker will open your mind to trusting your intuition. De Becker’s expertise comes from his own background and experience, coupled with his training as a psychologist. There are many startling statistics about violence, and some frightening stories from survivors of violent episodes. Most of all, you’ll learn vital skills that will save your life if you’re ever in danger.
Women, especially, are people pleaser’s and don’t want to seem abrupt or rude. This can be a life-threatening attitude. I have had several creepy instances over the years – especially at open houses and from “sign calls.” How do you handle a persistent stranger? Set up policies ahead of time for who you’ll meet and under what circumstances. There are many home buyers who are truly looking for property to buy, and there are many real estate brokers that buyers can trust even after a first meeting. Keep your guard up and don’t necessarily just trust, “the nice ones.” Check out references if you can, look a new person up on Google, and always let others know where you are and who you’re going with.
DeBecker recommends ignoring stalker-types, staying aware at all times and not engaging people who seem to need some sort of response or they don’t let up. He emphasizes trusting your instinct.
Play it safe – trust your instincts and read The Gift of Fear.
